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How to Recognize Yours
Recognizing your romantic soulmate: this
can be a tricky matter. Let's take a look at some reasons why, and then
some helpful tips for knowing your romantic soulmate when you see them.
Why You Might
Not Recognize Your Soulmate
We don't always know immediately - or
are meant to know immediately - that a person is a romantic soulmate
of ours. That could be because we aren't paying attention, or because
if we knew then we wouldn't be open to the idea, or because it's not
time for us to be involved with them romantically yet (such as if you're
in a relationship already).
Signs of a Romantic
The experiencing of meeting and knowing
a soulmate are different for each person. There are no absolute signs
or guarantees, here are some of the signs you might want to pay attention
- The person feels familiar even
though you've never met them before.
- A feeling that you've known
the person a long time when you haven't.
- Events seem to be bringing
- You feel a chemistry or "electricity"
with the person.
- You sense there's a purpose
for you together.
- You feel
a deep connection with the person, where you know you can trust them,
and you see each other for what you are.
Tips for Recognizing
You can improve your chances of recognizing
your soulmate when you first interact with them by doing the following:
- Ask Spirit for assistance in drawing you together
with your romantic soulmate, and in recognizing them - in keeping
with the Highest Good of all concerned.
- Release expectations for any certain "physical
type" or "personality type." This doesn't mean you
shouldn't have intentions for a person who cares about you, respects
you, etc. (you should!). But it does mean that if you're expecting
the person to be tall or short, blond haired or dark haired, to be
a certain age, do a certain kind of work, have a lot of money, or
to be thin or voluptuous - you may miss your soulmate altogether.
We do NOT get to choose our romantic soulmates. We can choose not
to be with them, but then we may or may not find another one. (But
keep in mind that if a person disrespects you, is dishonest, or abuses
you emotionally, mentally, or physically, they were not your soulmate
to begin with.)
- Be open minded and open hearted, while at the same
time using your mind to be cautious and look for "red flags"
(disrespect, dishonesty, etc.).
- Keep in mind that if you feel a soulmate-like connection
with someone, they may be a "romantic soulmate" or another
kind of soulmate. For more information, see What
is A Soulmate, Really?.
Article: What is A Soulmate, Really?
Romantic Soulmates - Myths and Truths
Signs of a Romantic Soulmate Connection